Who Will Sit With You In The Ashes Of Despair?

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16 responses to “Who Will Sit With You In The Ashes Of Despair?”

  1. Beautiful. Bless you and Deandra.

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    1. Thank you, Cindy. Have a great day.

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    1. Indeed! God cares about all our needs. Thank you for reading.

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  2. I love that you mentioned our tears are prayers too. God sees our tears and hears our hearts when we can’t find the words to say.

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    1. Amen. The Holy Spirit intercedes on our behalf with groanings that cannot be uttered. This includes our pain and tears. Thank you for reading.

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      1. Yes He does. You’re welcome.

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  3. Oh I’m so thankful the Lord provides us with companions who are able to sit with us in the ashes of despair. As I thought back to last week the Lord began showing me how needed being able to lament is. It’s very cathartic. Additionally, He showed me that when either me or someone else is lamenting, that is not the time to pour gospel into them. That is the time to sit and listen and help them lament even. Once that lamenting is expelled from the system, their hearts will be better able to receive the message that is needed to bring restoration. If we pour in when someone is pouring out, we can expect some of what we are trying to pour in will end up being expelled.

    I’m thankful the Lord sent you someone to sit with you then, and even now sis. He knows just how to provide for us, especially in the ashes of despair.

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    1. Sis, there is so much wisdom in your words. It is useless councelling someone when they are pouring out. Many of us lack wisdom on how to deal with someone when they are grieving and most times said words that hurt instead of comfort. After seven days of weeping with Job, his friends were able to speak to him. Thank you for your post that reminded me of where God brought me from. If He did it once He will do it again. Hold on in faith.

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      1. God be praised always. I look back over that post and know it was Holy Spirit’s leading because I had no intention to share the heartache I was feeling that night. But God worked it all out and continues to make His strength perfect in my weakness.
        Hang in there sis, there’s beauty in our brokenness. 🙏🏽

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      2. Amen! I agree with you. There is beauty in brokenness. 🙂❤

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  4. Thank you for sharing this, Beverley. It prompts me to ask who I can sit with through the ashes of their despair.

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    1. Great question to ask ourselves, Jan. We definitely should make ourselves available to sit with someone in the ashes of despair.

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  5. Tears are prayers too, sighing are prayers too, been silent but our mind is speaking to God loudly are prayers too. I have been there in the Ashes and no one to talk to but one day I shouted loudly in the house “God I need a friend” I went on the road I saw someone I knew from school. That was the person that I had to talk to but I realized I did most of the encouragement. That was an important friendship because I was young christian and the friendship helped to build my walk with Jesus Christ.

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    1. Yes, the Lord knows when we need a friend. Most times these special people came into our lives for a season and then they are gone. Thank you for sharing.

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      1. That is so true Beverley It was for a season indeed.

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