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Once a Man, Twice a Child!

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40 responses to “Once a Man, Twice a Child!”

  1. I am in total agreement with this! My mother who is 82 and has Alzheimer’s keeps saying this over and over claiming it’s in the Bible. I knew it wasn’t and found your article. I have always claimed the promise of Psalm 92 and of Moses vigor at the very end. I loved your testimony about your mom! This is my proclamation too over myself And my mom! Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Dear Donna ,

      I thank you so much for sharing, i believe that too.

      Just reading about your mom, reminds me of myself, why? Because i feel the same way and i do tell my kids the exact same words….

      Its funny how i pray in the bathroom just like your mom used to.

      God plans are completely different from what we can imagine.

      Thank you once again i bet your mom was a lovely lady..

      Am 49 years old and am a mother of 3.

      Many blessings Donna

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      1. Hi Nicole. Thank you for visiting and commenting on this post. I find myself praying the same prayer as my mom also. I pray that God will strengthen and bless you with long life to see your children grown and past the worst. God bless 🙌 you.

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  2. Hi Donna
    Thank you for sharing your testimony with us. Many people have spoken those negative words
    over their lives. I have grown up hearing those words so often that I thought that they were in the bible.
    It was not until God told me to write that post that I learned otherwise.

    The words that we speak will bring us life or death. It is better to speak words of life and live. Moses walked to his grave. His eyes were not dim and he was not sick.
    Continue to proclaim those positive words and promises over yourself and your mom and I know without a shadow of doubt that God will reward you.
    May God continue to bless you and I am looking forward to hear from you again.

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  3. so many times we accept the norms & sayings of our society as the will of God for our lives… but the purpose of any product is best described by the manufacturer in his manual! … God our creator’s plan is best known from His Word anything contrary shouldn’t be confessed into our lives!

    Thanks for this post! I always pray sound health for my mum too.

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  4. To be honest, I wasn’t familiar with the saying, but then I grew up in Japan!

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  5. This piece is so pertinent to many of us. Thank you for posting it. My mother is much the same, yet I am concerned for her. She refuses to move close to any one of her children. She is fiercely independent and lives several states away from me. Her mobility is steadily declining and I pray for her daily. It is our responsibility to honor our parents and care for them in their elderly years. We who are in Christ have been delivered from the fear of death and brought into the abundance of God’s limitless supply. Good health is included in the package deal, however, God has appointed some people to suffer affliction in order to highlight His glory in them—people like Joni Erickson Tada and many others. Great post.

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  6. P.S. You’ve gained a new follower. ☺

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  7. Thank you, Sheldon, for your support. I appreciate it very much. The elderly are very independent, and we cannot take that away fro them. I suggest that you get someone to stay with her or check on her daily to ensure that she is okay. God bless you.

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  8. Bless you sweet woman..It was lovely to read about your amazing faith journey and your childhood.. Thanks for the follow….How is the son that was born with a congenital heart disease.. is he ok? xox Jeane

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  9. Hi Jeane
    Yes, my son is okay. He had surgery in 2008 and God has been restoring him since. Thank you for your support and may God bless you.

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  10. I am not understanding this. Are you saying that if you’re sufficiently pious enough you will not be sick in your old age and dependent upon others? I never thought this statement was in the Bible–but it is very much true of many people’s experiences with aging.

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  11. I don’t understand when you said ‘sufficiently pious’ but to answer your question I want to refer you to the story of Moses in Exodus. He worked for the Lord until he was very old yet he was not sick nor his eyes dim.
    I a saying if you take good care of your body spiritually and physically while spending quality time in the presence of God you will not reach the stage where you become a child once more.

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  12. Lindsey Daugherty Avatar
    Lindsey Daugherty

    Thank you for this post. As I grow in my walk with Jesus and I mature in my faith I have realized that many of these sayings or “words of wisdom” are not Godly wisdom, but worldly wisdom. For I agree that I to always believed this was in the Bible. As I searched for it today due to some circumstances in our family’s life that has us dealing with a stubborn, childish mother-in-law (please do not take that the wrong way, I love her dearly yet the truth is the truth about her ways) I thought to myself that I needed to find where this is at in the Bible so I can see the full scripture that it goes with it for clarification. This is how I found your post, I googled it and found you and found the truth about the saying. Now I have spiritual clarification from God that this is not true but is a deception for Christians. If I was of the world I would believe that I have to honor my mother and father and accept the childish ways as they grow old. But no I do not have to accept their behavior because if they are truly a child of God and have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, as I do then they would not act in such a selfish, childish way. We are not to be as babes on milk but are to be mature in our faith. We are to be peaceable, loving, not greedy, not selfish, we are to love our neighbor as ourself, to be kind hearted, and slow to anger. Not prideful and not arrogant, we are not to be a gossiper, but we are to be humble and quiet in spirit. My 84yr old mother-in-law who professes to be a Christian is doing the very things she ought not to do, instead of being mature in her faith she is instead still just a babe on milk. So in fact the worldly wisdom of “once a man twice a child” would be fitting of her, because truly her actions are no different than that of the worlds, which means she is not what she professes to be, a Christian. Truly my heart breaks for her and I still love her despite her childish ways and despite the conflict that my family faces on account of her actions. For God has ordained this day and I will rejoice and be glad in it.

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    1. Hi Lindsey. Thank you for pouring out your heart. I believe many people are battling with similar situation. I worked in the hospital for many years and I have seen how the children struggled with elderly parents. I often spend time to comfort and encourage them. Truly, it is not the will of God that a man should become a babe twice. Fortunately, my mom had that revelation and when I was a child her daily prayer was that she did not want to become a burden to her children. She lived to be 83 years old and was never seriously ill. She hand washed her entire clothes on Sunday morning, cooked her favorite breakfast of Ackee and salt-fish (Jamaica national dish) which incidentally is also my favorite, and she died the following Monday morning while having her devotion. The Lord answered her prayer and she was never a burden to her family. I thank God everyday for her. Continue to pray for your mother-in-law and I pray strength for you and your family. I also pray that God will give you patience to deal with her because you will definitely need it. May God bless you, and thank you again. I really appreciate your input.

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  13. […] the phrase ‘once a man, twice a child‘ biblical? Click on the link to get the […]

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  14. What a lovely, thoughtful post! You are blessed to have this legacy of faith to live by.

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    1. Thank you. To God be the glory. Much blessings to you.

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  15. I remember learning in Hebrew school that we are born knowing everything there is to know, then God places a finger on our lips. We forget everything and are children once again. That is why we have a dent on our lips beneath our noses. I don’t know if this is in the Bible or in the Gemorrah, which is the Bible handed down by word of mouth. But I’ve never forgotten this.

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    1. Hello Susanne. Thank you for visiting . I appreciate it very much. Very interesting information that you have learned. I believe that many of these stories that were handed down have deeper spiritual meaning. We just have to dig a little deeper and ask the Lord to reveal it to us. Have a blessed weekend.

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  17. Amen! So very true. I’m sure your mother is having a blast right now.

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  18. Having a godly mother and prayer warrior is such a blessing!

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  19. The best mother is a godly mother. I am so happy and I am excited we will meet your mom someday 🙌

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    1. So true. Only God can keep us fresh and young.

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  20. Titeta D Foote Avatar

    Hello,Thank you so much for writing this… I began to really dwell on this,Ad I take care of older people who has suffered from the disease of loosing their memory..
    And what we have heard growing up about once A Man twice a child is 1000%Contray to What God says.. If This was right, Then it would have affected, Moses,Abraham ,Sarah and so many others. IT IS AN AMAZING AND AWESOME THING TO GET IN A PLACE THAT YOU wanna go back to what you have been taught…To really know if it Lines up with what God says.. I pray that everyone who wanna know the truth will continue to seek God in everything that we do,say and have learned…

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    1. Thank you my sister for this confirmation. We need to line up our lives with the word of God and do not accept the lies of the enemy. Have a great week in the Lord and continue to visit. I appreciate your support very much.

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      1. Hello oh yes… Thank u for responding ,God bless you as well have a great week

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  21. Reblogged this on Becoming the Oil and the Wine and commented:

    Do you believe that god is able to keep and sustain you during your old age?
    The following is an old post written in 2014, the year I stared this blog. This post is the most read and viewed post to date. Thank you for reading!

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  22. Thank you by the way for your comment and its encouraging to hear you praying for the persecuted church

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    1. No problem. We are called to pray for each other. Blessings to you.

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  23. Thank you so much for this article, the holy spirit has told me for a while without doing much research on this matter that “Once an adult, twice a child” is not biblically accurate when you turn from sin and follow God’s perfect will and perfect law in Jesus Christ our Lord and savior!! I’ve thought about diseases of the mind when it says in the Bible if you don’t turn from your sins and repent that God will turn you over to a reprobate mind. I knew by that in the Bible diseases of the mind has to correlate with just what it says. Thank you again for this article, this really electrified me when I read this. May God lead you on your path through Jesus and bless you the remainder of your days!! God Bless!!!

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    1. I am glad to hear that this article was a blessing to you. Indeed it is God’s desire that we remain healthy and strong all the days of our lives. Enjoy the rest of your day.

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  24. Tressie Berry Avatar

    Thank you for the clarity of this cliche. I, too, always thought it was biblical.
    The fulfilling of your mother’s prayers is encouraging and uplifting.

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    1. Hi Tressie. I am happy to know that this article has helped you. Many times we believe things that are not biblical. God is able to strengthen and keep you even when you are old. Thank you for visiting and sharing.

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  25. Thank you for this post! I got goose bumps reading it because it was almost as if I was the author describing my own mother. She died ChristmasEve but the day before she too washed her clothes and cooked her breakfast and I found her unresponsive on the bathroom floor. I like the declaration you mentioned that I am”Once a child, once a Woman”

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    1. Praise the Lord! Thank the Lord for the precious life of your dear mom. She travelled home to be with Lord without becoming a child again. Bless you and thank you for visiting and reading. Please continue to do so by subscribing. I appreciated it.

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  26. Danielle Sparks Avatar
    Danielle Sparks

    Yes, hello Beverly. I also wanted to thank you writing and sharing this article. When I was young growing up, my dad would say that all the time. As he reached old age, it was evident that life and death are, in the power of the tongue because my dead reaped that same quote.
    His memory had almost completely failed, he was basically bedridden before he passed a few years ago. Now my mom has been diagnosed with it as well. Which led me on a hunt to find where it states thus, in scripture and I was unable to find it.
    But upon more research I ran across your article which gave me answers to alot of questions I had been toiling with. Therefore I have hope, peace and joy confrming that God does not want this for his children. Reading this and knowing the things of God, I will definitely be praying differently when it comes to this.
    Thanks again, for this article.
    God Bless and Keep it up!

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    1. So sorry to hear about the passing of your precious dad. Sometimes we unknowingly prophecy negative things upon our lives. I agree with you that we should always pray against the negativity and speak life. I will keep your mom in my prayers. Thank you for visiting and please share the article to anyone you think it will help. Bless you.

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